أهم القواعد التي يجب اتباعها في بناء العلاقات مع الناس

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من أهم القواعد التي يجب اتباعها في بناء العلاقات مع الناس ما يلي :
1- أصلح ما بينك وبين الله يصلح الله ما بينك وبين الآخرين.
2- أثبتت الدراسات النفسية أن لكل إنسان نمطا خاصا به، وأن الأنماط عموما هي: إمانمط صوري أي الإنسان ينظر للعالم ويتعامل معه من خلال الصورة.
أونمط سمعي أي ينظر للعالم ويتعامل معه من خلال الكلمة المسموعة.
أوصاحب نمط إحساسي ينظر للعالم من خلال أحاسيسه ومشاعره الداخلية …

فمعرفة نمط الإنسان الذي تتعامل معه ثم محاولة الدخول له من خلال النمط المناسب له يعجل بالانسجام والتوافق بينك وبينه وإقامة الثقة فيما بينكما.3- ضع نفسك في مكان الآخرين ثم أسمعهم من الكلام ما تحب ان تسمعه وتصّرف معهم بما تحب أن يعاملك به الآخرون.
4- ابتسم دائما وبخاصة عند المواقف والأحداث الصعبة.
5- احتفظ بهدوئك ورباطة جأشك عند الاستفزاز.
6- ضع في حسبانك دائما مشاعر الآخرين وحقوقهم وحاجاتهم.
7- اختر كلماتك بعناية وبخاصة في أول لقاء وكن متهللاً عند التفوه بكلماتك مع الآخرين و أحذر من جمود القسمات وغلظة الوجه حتى وان كانت كلماتك أرق من النسيم.
8- إذا كانت الأجواء غير مناسبة للحديث في موضوع ما فيفضل إنهاء الحديث بلباقة وتأجيله إلى وقت آخر يكون اكثر مناسبة.

9- رصع حديثك بالنكت والطرائف والأمثال (ولا تجعلها تطغى على حديثك) ولا تقل ألا حقا ، فان ذلك يضفي جوا من التفاعل على الحديث.

10- الهدية الجميلة وان صغرت والمسارعة لمساعدة الآخرين وإن قلت ، من أهم وسائل كسب القلوب وبناء العلاقة بين الناس ، قال عليه الصلاة والسلام : تهادوا تحابوا.
11- إفشاء السلام ورد التحية بأحسن منها مفتاح القلوب، فاحرص على امتلاك هذا المفتاح.

12- الوفاء بالوعد وصدق الحديث يجعل الآخرين يحبونك وان لم تستطع أن تفعل لهم ما يريدون.

13- الكرم بالميسور ، وان قل يبوئك أعلى المنازل في قلوب الناس ، ولا يمكن أن ينال الإنسان محبة الناس وهو من الموصوفين بالبخل والشح.

14- البساطة وعدم التكلف في التعامل ، مع التنظيم لأمور الحياة وعدم الفوضى يكسبك احترام غيرك حتى ولو كان من أعدائك.

15- النظافة في البدن والفم والملبس والأناقة غير المبالغ فيها وطيب الرائحة مما يريح المتعامل معك ولا ينفره منك.
وهذه القواعد تطبق في جميع الأحوال والأدوار سواء كنا في العمل أو في البيت مع الزوج أو الزوجة أو الآباء والأبناء أو الأصدقاء أو الأغراب.

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